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19 - LA - intersectional feminist - singer, songwriter, street rat

nonbinary transman

i try to tag trigger warnings but this blog is definitely NSFW



in an   i s o l a t e d   system, entropy can only increase

(via botanicqueer)

→ A Man Emailed His Wife A Spreadsheet That Logged All The The Times She'd Said No To Sex




This is it. This is pretty much the pentacle of male privilege in the U.S. When a husband whole heartedly believes that he is a victim to unfair treatment by his wife because she denied him sex 26 times in a month.  

When a man think his pleasures is more important than a women NOT WANTING TO HAVE SEX and since they are married he has every right to her body and by denying him access to her body she is denying him said right. 

He thinks her “excuses” for having sex are also unreasonable. And what are some of those “excuses”?

-She was too tired to have sex.

-She was sick.

-She was too drunk.

-She felt tender (in vaginal region) after having sex the other day.

-They didn’t have enough time because they had somewhere to be. (Which means he was fully prepared to have enough time to get himself off INSIDE his wife while knowing they wouldn’t have enough time for her pleasure)

These are all unreasonable “excuses”

 I saw the Reddit thread, and most people were siding with him because she was committing the unacceptable crime of not having sex with him, and even among those who were more sympathetic were starting with ”he did it in an immature way…BUT” and it’s just so depressing how much people hate women that are not ”fulfilling their purpose” of being fucked by men. 

The comments on the Buzzfeed link are full of women defending the guy.

It makes me so fucking sick.

(via proudlyafeminist)


So many men have internalized the lie that they have uncontrollable sex drives, and no way to control their anger. They aren’t ashamed of their abusive behavior because they see it as a something natural to them and maybe even central to their masculinity. It’s scary as hell.

(via hardtobeoriginal)



We can be the bands we want to hear.
We can define our own generation.

remind me to show this to my parents when they think punk is bad, that all punks are bad.

(via dorito-noises)


my biggest regret from adolescence is valuing intelligence over kindness

you need to tell yourself honey… is he really cute? or is he just a white with a visible jawline?

(Source: marimopet, via cemeteriyaki)


Please tell me if you love Violet Baudelaire because I need to know there are others out there who were also subconsciously empowered by her incredible characterization and skills.

(via romulea)

Anonymous: and what's that supposed to mean? (re: mental illnesses)


mental illnesses are not free from the surrounding social atmosphere, ideological apparatuses, economical system and the gender dynamics of a society, nor they are free from the ‘ill’ person’s experiences. to act like they are is oppressive to the so-called mentally ill. in short,  to say depression is like a flu is ridiculous. also, psychology is a normative science that relies on the power dynamics and the ethics of the time periods it takes place in - it is not something that is solely based on biology, to accept the proposed thesis of the quote you’d have to act like it is.